Being vulnerable

We live in a world where exposing our real feelings,desires and motives are just unheard of.We constantly seem to connect with people  at the surface level.Never making meaningful and lasting connections because we are afraid of the pain that might come with it.Yet our inner worlds  yearn for such meaningful connections but we fail to bring this into the forefront in our outer worlds which brings about conflict in our everyday lives.

We have been taught to think that we ought to be strong and control our every situation.Let it be known no one can be truly strong without being vulnerable,one cannot love,or trust without being vulnerable.It  is by being completely and utterly okay with all of you that you exude strength. Vulnerability is about revealing something that you deny or keep hidden from everyone else it is not about showing the good parts of you. My point is we must drop the facade ,masks and whatever clown costumes we may wear and  expose who we really are , our intentions,motives ,desires  only then can we live the life we truly long for.

xoxoxo
Heart Follower

Clarity is far better than Confidence

I feel as though this entire cosmic entity is hung up about every single being being utterly confident.  But what is confidence without clarity- NOTHING!

Here is one of my favorite quotes on the matter: ''What a human being needs is clarity, not confidence. If you want to walk through a crowd of people, if your vision is clear and you can see where everybody is, you can just walk through the whole crowd without touching anyone. If your vision is not clear but you have confidence, you will walk over everybody. Because there is no clarity, people think that confidence is a good substitute. It just cannot be. Let’s say you make all the major decisions in your life like this: get yourself a coin, flip it. If it’s heads, it’s one way, tails the other. It works 50% of the time. If you are right only 50% of the time, there are only two professions that you can keep – either a weather man or an astrologer. You cannot keep any other job on this planet.''-Sadhguru

Yes of course I believe confidence has its uses but clarity is an essential ingredient in the mix, clarity is vital to making grave and lasting changes. This calls for a distinct picture in your mind of what it is you wish to accomplish in whatever area you choose.We need to have a clear, definite path which correlates to setting clearer definite goals. In this world, it is essential that your inner realm seeks clarity, is free from obscurity, proclaims a worthy message thereby standing out from all the rest and achieving those itching desires.

xoxoxo
Heart Follower