We know NOTHING!

This morning I have come to the conclusion that I know nothing about what I really want .(My close friend  was ABSOLUTELY right).This is true for all of us, we do not know what we want until we stumble upon it by accident AND we must do a great deal of stumbling to find it.See society has fed us with lies from when we were tiny and  gullible .These same ideas continued throughout our lives  to be fed to us as our own thoughts and feelings until we adopted these thoughts and feelings as our own,you begin to chase these things because you believe them to be yours.Only when we gained an entirely different perspective on life did we realise that society was wrong. You must give up these ideas and discover your real desires.

You discover your own ideas when you have actual experience of what you want. You don't know if you like it until you have tried it.Therefore you must try a lot of different things.You will know when you stumble upon it it will make something tingle in your consciousness in way that only you will comprehend.That's why you can't listen to anyone when it comes to what you want in your life.Knowing what makes you glow is like a second awakening,so I dare you to go out now and re-discover your own vastly uncharted soul ,re-connect with yourself and by all means get out of your comfort zone .It is the ONLY way to find what makes you glow!

xoxoxo

Heart Follower

Be the kind of person you want to meet

For a second I would like you to THINK about all the people you admire or are envious of, THINK about what aspect of them you wish you had.THINK about what it is you think you are lacking or perhaps notice where these people are in their lives and acknowledge it, praise their accomplishments because there is something about them that you wish you had.

Always remember that feelings of anger and resentment towards people arise when we fail to develop certain qualities that we initially admired about someone even later on when we despise them for those very qualities.

Now I want you to envision your ideal person, what qualities does this person have , what ideals and values do they have, what do they look like? This is something I would like you to do everyday.The more times you run this daydream in your head the more you become the person you so desire. But most importantly be the most authentic you!

The world is a mirror - we attract not what we want but what we are.We do not receive what we work for but what we believe we deserve.

Whenever we think about that which we so ardently desire,we must ask ourselves: who must I become to achieve and receive such a blessing?

xoxoxo
Heart Follower

Embrace challenge

This saying I firmly adhere to.I am always up to improve myself ,not that I believe that I am a fumbling mess but that I believe that life gets boring when you remain in the confines of what you already know. Who would want to be stuck with the same situations and the same kind of people forever ? No one willingly enjoys stagnation.Our humanistic instincts all point to moving up the bean stalk so why not embrace it now. Let it be known my heart followers once you begin to follow your curiosity and embrace the challenges that come your way you will certainly see a better you being brought to the surface.

xoxoxo
Heart Follower

Being vulnerable

We live in a world where exposing our real feelings,desires and motives are just unheard of.We constantly seem to connect with people  at the surface level.Never making meaningful and lasting connections because we are afraid of the pain that might come with it.Yet our inner worlds  yearn for such meaningful connections but we fail to bring this into the forefront in our outer worlds which brings about conflict in our everyday lives.

We have been taught to think that we ought to be strong and control our every situation.Let it be known no one can be truly strong without being vulnerable,one cannot love,or trust without being vulnerable.It  is by being completely and utterly okay with all of you that you exude strength. Vulnerability is about revealing something that you deny or keep hidden from everyone else it is not about showing the good parts of you. My point is we must drop the facade ,masks and whatever clown costumes we may wear and  expose who we really are , our intentions,motives ,desires  only then can we live the life we truly long for.

xoxoxo
Heart Follower