Don't compare your behind the scenes to someone's highlight reel

We sit watching others,though we only see their accomplishments, their products, their highlight reel; we do not know the work that goes in to make it all work,we do not know the demons that torment their soul nor could we ever come to comprehend what they have suffered even given all the facts because no one experiences ,feels and grows the same way.Just accept now that you know nothing about them!

Focus on yourself!It is the only thing in life you can change.Focus your energies within and start changing from the inside out.(that which is within shall be without).When your inner world becomes that which you so desire your outer world follows suit with this idea.You NEED to focus on yourself and succeed on your own conditions.Don't settle or adopt someone else's definition of success. You are unique therefore your definition of success ought to  be too! You run your own race, you HAVE  no TIME to compete with others because you are too busy molding yourself and chiseling away the debris to become that which you so ardently desire.

xoxoxo
Heart Follower

False sense of entitlement

This is an observation I have made about others in my general vicinity and perhaps myself as well in some aspects, that we come to believe that we are deserving of certain things as if they are our birth right .We come to think that these things should be fed to us from a golden spoon, from the golden platter of everything and anything your heart so desire, brought forth from the well of abundance.
This is outrageously an unmerited expectation of how things ought to play.We must work for the things we want! You are not some frail vegetable of a human, be thankful for that and use those limbs whilst you still have use for them.Who do you think you are? Some god or godess living among peasants, get that mind of yours checked out, please and thanks.This is an entitlement free zone!

xoxoxo
Heart Follower

Let not your emotions consume you...

Emotions are what makes us human and the deeper they are the more harm they could cost you if you do not control them.If they go untamed they will make us behave irrationally .My best advice and also what has worked in taming my anger has been delaying my anger ,saving it for later when I can process why I feel the way I do and then I can do something about it .

YOU are not your emotions,so do not let your emotions control you !And by all means move forward and use those emotions as stepping stones to where you really want to be in  life.

xoxoxo

Heart Follower

Shedding your old skin

The time is now to venture into all that you are.There lies within each of us at any given moment tremendous potential that we may never realise until we encounter resistance.Only by eliminating all the negatives and focusing on what can be changed can one see any results.Shedding your old skin and allowing new ideas and perspectives on doing things will certainly change you for the better but this is something you must do for yourself .Shed your skin your way ! There is no one right way for doing this.

Repeat this affirmation daily:

I have decided now in this moment that I will allow myself to release myself from my old skin and fit into my new skin.To do so I must release myself from clutter,old ideas,old routines and look for alternatives that are still in line with my beliefs.I will no longer be a creature of habit . I will embrace change and the spontaneity that comes with it, as I now know with all my heart that this old skin is truly holding me back from the life I could be living.

XOXOXO 

Heart Follower